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UK Question: Am i entitled to any benefits during the summer holidays while off college? Jul 26
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Dont let the *?%!# get u down :p asked:


So im 18 and a full time student and i work part time. I want to rent a flat by myself due to circumstances at home. The council says Im not entitled to any benefits whatsoever (Meanwhile the wasters get everything under the sun i.e. money house etc. and the junkies get FREE taxis to get their FREE methodone because they spent HARDWORKING peoples tax money on drugs!!!!).

They say Im not allowed anything because Im doing a HND at college, but college is closed for almost 3months for summer so technically I wont be a student then…will I? Am i entitled to things like housing benefit during those 3 months Im “not a student”

Ive worked it all out and with the money I make I wouldnt be able to afford moving into a flat by myself until i went back to college in september but I dont think I can wait that long :-/

So wot I want to know is if Im entitled to anything … doesnt matter how small amount, in this case “every little helps” :p
hey i can work in the summer holidays but what i earn wont cover the cost of rent, gas, electricity, food etc. thats why i wanted to get housing benefit to make up part of my rent…considering they dont make junkies and wasters pay any rent i thought i would at least get some towards the cost of mine. Ive just decided to sit tight at home until “further notice” lol

Embarrassing question for girls in UK? Jul 24
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sarah-England asked:


Hi everyone, I finished school for the summer last friday and have been bored at home.

Do any other girls find that they mas*ur*ate a lot more during school holidays?

Normally I do it about once a day or once every 2 days, but i’ve done it like 2-3 times a day for the past week, probably just cos im bored any my mind has been drifting onto lads that I like, but does this happen to anybody else too?

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woolf disregard again ok? Jul 23
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monica l asked:


Adeline Virginia Stephen was born on January 25, 1882 in London, England and the daughter of Julia Jackson Ducksworth and Sir Leslie Stephen. Julia, her mother, was a member of Ducksworth publishing family and the descendant of Marie Antoinette. She was first married to Herbert Ducksworth with whom she had three children: George, Stella and Gerald. Sir Leslie Stephen, her father, was a literary critic and an English author. He was first married to Hariet Marion and had a daughter, Laura Makepeace Stephen. Julia and Leslie married in 1875 and had Thoby, Adrian, Virginia and Vanessa. (Young 23)
Virginia was educated at home by her father at Hyde Park Gate in London where she had full access to her father’s large library. She didn’t enjoy her childhood as much as she would like, and Woolf described her experience as,”No school; mooning about alone among my father’s books; never any chance to pick up all that goes on in schools—throwing balls; ragging; slang; vulgarities; scenes; jealousies!” She would spend long hours at her father’s library reading books, because she was determined to become a writer like her father. (Caws 46)
Her most fondest childhood memory was at the Talland House in St. Ives, Cornwall where the setting of most of her novels occured such as one of her famous books, To the Lighthouse. She spent most of her childhood summer vacations, holidays and family gatherings there. She remembers it as a “fun and festive place to stay.” It looked over the Porthminister Bay and the Godrevy Lighthouse. (Rich)
Virginia lived a very troubled life. Her half-brother, Gerald Ducksworth, sexually abused her and Vannesa in their early teens after their father’s death. “I can remember the feel of his hands going under my clothes; going firmly and steadily lower and lower, I remember how I hoped that he would stop; how I stiffened and wriggled as his hand approached my private parts. But he did not stop” (Woolf ). This caused her major psychological damage throughout her life and sexual fears.
Virginia suffered numerous nervous breakdowns. Deaths in her family was the major cause of her nervous breakdowns. She had her first major nervous breakdown when her mother died in 1895 when she was only thirteen years old. After her mother’s death, her half-sister, Stella, stood as their mother and took care of her siblings. Sadly two years later after Julia’s death, Stella died. Her second major breakdown occurred when her father died of cancer in 1904. This was the most dangerous and alarming breakdown, because she tried to commit suicide by jumping out of the window. Her family decided to institutionalized her to help her get better. (Roy)
Roughly after her father’s death, Virginia and her three other siblings moved to Bloomsbury to avoid George, who’ve sexually abused and bullied both Virginia and Vanessa. Virginia and her siblings began The Bloomsbury Group in their new house. They held meetings and talked about literature, criticism, economics, feminism, sexuality etc. Members were mainly upper middle class families and were mostly the Stephen’s family, relatives and close friends. It was called The Bloomsbury Group, because most of the members lived in Bloomsbury which is located in the West Central district in London, England.
While she was busy with The Bloomsbury Group, Woolf then started tutoring at the Morley College, an evening school for working men and women, once a week. In 1905, she began writing for the Times Literary Supplement for many years while working on her first novel, The Voyage Out. The book was already done in 1907 and was originally called The Melymbrosia, but Woolf was not emotionally stable. (Brackett 86)
Woolf finally published her first book called The Voyage Out was published in 1915 by Ducksworth. It was a “strange, tragic, inspired book whose scene is a South americanca not found on any map and reached by a boat which would not float on any sea, an americanca whose spiritual boundaries touch Xanadu and Atlantis… It is absolutely unafraid… Here at last is a book which attains unity as surely as Wuthering Heights, though by a different path” (Merriman).
Virginia married Leonard Woolf, a political theorist, on August 10, 1912 and went to Spain and Italy for their honeymoon. On October 1914, they both decided to move in Richmond. Virginia at that time was recovering from a nervous breakdown. Leonard devoted his life to Virginia and was determined to help her get better. In 1917, he then decided to purchase Hogarth Press in 1917 for Virginia to have something to do. The aim was to publish their works and their friends’ works. After her first novel, Virginia published most of her books there. The Hogarth Press became a successful publishing house printing the early works of Forster, Katherine Mansfield, and T. S. Eliot, Sigmund Freud.
Woolf had an affair with Vita Sackvillewest for a short period of time. Vita Sacksvillewest was an English poet and novelist. She was Harold Nicholson’s wife and both had several same-sex relationships outside their marriage. Leonard did not mind her having an affair with another women and so did Harold. Woolf wrote Orlando as a result of this affair. (Bloom 75)
After her first book, Woolf wrote several other books and published it in Hogarth Press. Virginia Woolf’s works are linked to development of feminist criticism and an important writer in te modernist movement. She changed writing novels that allowed to depict inner lives of the characters in a very deep and intimate detail. In 1922, Virginia published Jacob’s Room, and it was based on his brother’s life and death, Thoby. To the Lighthouse and The Waves were the novels that helped her establish her name and became known as “one of the leading writers of modernism” The Waves is considered as her most difficult novel, because it tracks the lives of six different people from their school days to the death of the main character. Her most famous statement was in A Room of One’s Own published in 1929. “A woman must have money and a room of her own if she is to write fiction.” (Woolf)
Virginia Woolf had her last mental breakdown and feared that it would be permanent. She filled her pockets with stones and decided to drown herself in the River Ouse. Virginia left a note for her husband that says, “I feel certain that I am going mad again. I feel we can’t go through mother of those terrible times. And I shan’t recover this time.” (Brackett 94)
Mrs Dalloway was published in 1925. This book was about Clarissa Dalloway hosting an extravagant party that evening in London. Peter Walsh, her old friend and suitor, drops by her house unexpectedly and Clarissa was shocked. She recalls her life before World War I when she had a relationship with Peter Walsh before she married Richard Dalloway. Peter never really got over the fact that Clarissa refused her marriage proposal. He was about to ask her if she loves her husband but Clarissa’s daughter came in. He then went to Regent’s Park to pass time.
After Peter left, the author changed her point of view to Septimus who was at Regent’s Park. He was a veteran of World War I who suffers from shell shock. Lucrezia, his wife, and Septimus were waiting for his appointment with the psychiatrist at the park. He used to be a young poet and a fan of Shakespeare but became numb after the war. Septimus feels worthless and lost the desire to live. His experienced in the war have scarred him permanently, but the psychiatrist would not listen to him. He wants to send Septimus to a mental institution away from Lucrezia, because he believes that it would help him get better. (Roy)
Clarissa’s husband, Richard Dalloway, returned home from lunch with Whitbread and Bruton with a large bouqet of roses. He wants to tell her how much he loves her but could not, because it has been a very long time since he last did. On the other hand, Clarissa feels a little disturbed that Richard doesn’t know everything about her life. She is happy though that they are able to maintain privacy because she believes that it is the key to a successful marriage.
Meanwhile, Septimus and Lucrezia are in the apartment enjoying their happiness together before he leaves Lucrezia. When Dr. Holmes arrives, Septimus feels that the doctor will destroy his soul. In order to avoid Dr. Holmes, he jumped off his apartment window and killed himself. The story shifts back to Clarissa’s party. She heard about Septimus’ death at the party and admired him for having the courage to not compromise his soul. She feels responsible for his death, because she was the society hostess. (Roy)
Clarissa Dalloway struggles to balance her internal life with the external world. She lives off her external world that consists of fashion, parties, and appearance but beneath wants a deeper meaning of life. Septimus on the hand, removed himself from the external world and lives in an internal world. Peter Walsh, Clarissa’s old suitor and friend, fears that he wated his life. He is confused with how he feels and tries to talk himself into feeling or not feeling things. Richard Dalloway, Clarissa’s husband, considers tradition as the primary importance in life than open communication or passion. (Roy)
The themes of the novel were communication vs. privacy and fear of death. Clarissa, Septimus, Peter and Richard finds privacy and communication difficult to both attain. Clarissa throws parties to help draw people together. The novel took place in London, England and the entire novel happened in less than twenty-four hours.
Bloom, Harold. Virginia Woolf. Philadelphia: Chelsea House Publishers, 2005.

Brackett, Virginia. The Story of Virginia Woolf. Greenshow: Morgan Reynolds Publisher, 2004.

Caws, Mary Ann. Virginia Woolf. Woodstock: Overlook Press, 2002.

Fukashima, H. “Society of Great Britain.” Virginia Woolf. 2000. . 1 November 2007.

Johnson, Roy. “Virginia Woolf.” Writer’s in Context. 2004. . 1 November 2007.

Merriman, C. D. “Virginia Woolf.” Biography. 2004. Jalin Inc. . 1 November 2007.

Rich, Joel. “Virginia Woolf.” Women and Fiction. 2003. . 1 November 2007.

Young, Tory. The Hours. New York: Continuum, 2003.

The McCanns? Jul 18
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CT asked:


This is getting weirder by the second.. With reference to the Sky news latest :

In my opinion, every statement this man makes is specifically designed to cut off at the pass any criticism he thinks is about to come this way, and to set the scene for the next round of jolly japes.

We need time to grieve - okay absolutely no problem with that at all. However, does that mean that they have reached the conclusion that Madeleine is probably now dead ? Because if they have, perhaps it is time to start to consider returning home. They would have their support network around them there, and they could still carry on with the PR stuff if they wanted to.
If they have concluded she is dead, I don’t understand the decision to remain until the end of the summer. Is that to give some time for public opinion/interest to die down, so that there will be fewer awkward questions to face when they do return.

I will have to make trips to the UK- Why ? Lets tell everyone now that we will need to make these trips, so they won’t wonder why we are taking off again

Its time to pull back from all the attention - why ? Because its not playing out for you as well as you thought it would ? Because there is enough money in the holiday fund now ? Because people are starting to suspect ?

Whatever happened to ” Leave no stone unturned” ?

OR

Something has happened and they have been advised to stay in portugal. Either the Police Or their PR staff who told them to refrain the media thing. Hopefully the first one, which would mean that they are getting closer to the possible abductor…Just a thought

Summer Camp Alternatives? Jul 18
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thecharlotteairplane asked:


The summer’s fast approaching, isn’t it? We’ve still got a bit of a way to go, sure (the pouring rain and almost arctic temperatures are fooling some of you, I know, but have the sun’s just around the corner I’m sure…), but it’s coming. And, with the summer, comes the summer holidays. During which my parents have to work, as usual. Last year was the very last year that I can return to the summer camp that I’ve been visiting since I was a little kid, and no other summer camps seem willing to take older teenagers (I’m fifteen, for reference). So my question to you is…

What alternatives to summer camps are there for teenagers who can’t be at home during the summer? It doesn’t have to take up an entire six weeks, my parents only have to work for four, but hopefully it’ll entail mingling with a lot of other people my age. Social skills have never been my forte, exactly, and I’m hoping that I can engage in a bit of fine tuning this summer and turn that around. I live in the UK (the South East, to be a bit more specific) and, like I said, I’m fifteen.

HELP ?!

Experiences travelling around/outside of Europe? Jul 13
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☆★♫Musical Breath♫☆★ asked:


Ok well one of my goals is to travel and visit countries outside of Europe. I live in the UK, and have so far been to countries in West and Central Europe, having experienced no problems at all and also the fact that I have relatives from those countries makes me feel more “at home” whilst in those places. However, I did get quite a lot of unfriendly stares when me and my parents decided to visit Naples for our last summer holiday possibly due to my lighter complexion and the fact that I can’t speak a word of Italian anyway, let alone their local dialect - also once when I was wearing shorts and a top that showed my stomach due to the hot weather and high open toed sandals, I got heavily stared at by many of the local men, one of them stopped on a moped, looked at me for a few seconds and made a “kissy face” at me before speeding off. Also, the same kind of thing happened when I went to Barcelona on a school trip, though we were in the presence of teachers at all times. I want to someday visit places outside of Europe, like places in Asia, Africa or the Caribbean but I’ve heard the locals in those kinds of places don’t take too kindly to strangers, especially as the languages can be more difficult to pick up. Is this true?

homeschool help please? Jul 09
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Starstruck asked:


hi:)

erm i’m hoping to be home schooled we need to prove to them how i’m gonna be educated so that i do need to sort out aswell but i was wondering when your home schooled do you not get summer holidays because thats what my mum thinks and it’s kinda sad because i’m already off but i wouldnt like to be doing work then:(? so im wondering if the holidays are the same and if you can enjoy your holidays also where i can buy jotters and maths books and stuff lol sorry for being so random and that but just anything i need to know really im from the uk if that helps so i wouldnt be able to use anything american with the price and stuff like that!
(uk,sites,inspector,writing to school,jotters,and everything really)

Can Bernese Mountain Dogs be left alone for this long? Jul 06
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Danielle W asked:


firstly i live in the uk!!!!!!Me and my family are out from 7:30am until 4:00pm. i have always wanted a Bernese and my mum is softening up to getting one.I will give it 20 minute walk in the morning and my mum will come home at about 12:30 and give it a 10 minute walk, then go back to work. then as soon as i get home at 4:00 i will take it for a walk and a long walk and romp in the field. i will spend every minute i can giving it attention and love! Obviously we will gradually leave the puppy alone for a bit at a time and gradually get more as we will get him/her in the summer holidays so……is this okay?

If yes should i keep him in a crate( obviously a huge on in the kitchen!)
leave the radio on?
give him toys?
Not put him in a crate?

Any advice gratefully received!

most advice get the best answer!
IF NECESSARY I WILL WALK THE DOG FOR A LONGER TIME IN THE MORNING AND ASK THE NEIGHBOUR TO LET IT OUT BETWEEN THE 2 PERIODS OF TIME!

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Hospital work abroad this summer? Jul 06
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Shui Jing asked:


I’m a potential med student and I need to do vlunteer work. I already plan to work in and old people’s home and have some hospital work observation for about 4 days lined up in the UK.

However, I would dearly love to travel to somewhere that really needs help but isn’t that dangerous (i.e. in terms of crime etc so my parents might actually let me go!).

How should I organise this? Who with? When is the best time? Where? Bear in mind that I only wish to do this for a week or two in the summer holidays.

Hospital assistance would be ideal…

Summer volunteer work abroad? Jul 05
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anonymous asked:


Hi! I’m 17 years old and live in the UK. Over the summer holidays, I made a group of friends at a summer camp and we all want to meet again next summer. However, we all know that our parents would not be willing to pay the exorbitant amounts again…

We were therefore thinking of doing some kind of charity/volunteer work abroad (for around 2 weeks) where we could all meet up, but many websites seem to charge large amounts of money for accommodation, food etc.

We ideally want to find somewhere where we can all meet up and only really have to pay for flights to get there. (The group of 8 is made up of 6 from Canada, 1 from New Zealand 1 from England (myself))

The charity work should also be worthwhile, otherwise it would be difficult to justify flying to some random country, when there is sufficient charity work available in our home countries!

I would be grateful if any of you out there could possibly recommend a few websites that offer volunteer work for people from around the world and charge as little as possible for accommodation and food (and maybe even subsidize the cost of flights), if such websites exist.

Thank you.